If you are like me, you are not really a great fan of pressure.
Relationships, money, deadlines, expectations … when does it all end??? It ends when we die! However, physical death is not exactly one of my favorites either. Vacations help … well, sometimes. Sometimes we need a vacation from our vacation!
A few years ago a wise woman gave me a new perspective on pressure. She said, “Jan, pressure is designed to press us UP, not down”. Well, that is a new thought.
I have heard the analogies of pressure turning coal into diamonds and “Under Pressure” certainly worked out well as a hit song for David Bowie, but I am still not crazy about the idea.
About half a century down life’s road, I think I finally got it! It took me a minute to figure this out.
Here are the top 8 things that I found out about the power of pressure:
It is Pressure that gets me UP when I don’t necessarily feel like moving
The Pressure of my words lifts me UP into integrity so I do what I say
The Pressure of pushing weights UP builds my body and helps keep me healthy
Pressure makes me have to draw clear boundaries and builds UP my tenacity and inner power
Pressure brings UP my emotions and enables me to see what is going on in me so I can deal with it
Pressure pushes me to be my very best and do what I thought was impossible. That is UPlifing!
Pressure forces me to think in new ways and UP-level my intellect
Pressure causes me to send prayers UP and increase my spiritual life
So, the bottom line is …. pressure truly lifts us UP in our Spirit, Mind, and Body. Maybe it really was designed to press us UP and not down.
I guess Pressure is just doing its job!
Jan Goss-Gibson is the owner of Civility Consulting, a consulting and training firm in Austin, Texas specializing in First Impression Management, Confidence Training and Business Building.